Transform Your
Self-Image and Confidence
Until You Fall in Love With Who
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This is My Story

I started attending college after working in different factories for over 5 years. Every time I would go to the office from the factory floor to pick up my paycheck, I found myself feeling jealous of the women that had the office jobs, and I started dreaming of one day having a good, clean job where I could wear a business suit and work in a nice corporate office doing more meaningful and important things. I was convinced that that was the American Dream and I thought that if I could attain that fancy corporate job, I’d be happy and all set.

After taking night classes while raising 3 children, I finally graduated with my first business degree. Shortly after, I landed my first big corporate job working at MassMutual. At first I was so happy and it felt truly amazing. I had my own office, a coffee on my table and I was finally working on doing what seemed to be truly important tasks.

The first year went by so fast and I was getting more and more comfortable with my team and the position. After my first performance review I got a 25 cent raise which came with 5 times more responsibilities. I accepted it and thought to myself, “that's ok, if I continue to work even harder, I will move myself up in the company and become more successful.” In reality, the further I got the more stress, gossip, & backstabbing I received from my coworkers that I considered to be my friends. I started to feel that the only good thing I looked forward to in the office was my lunch hour because that’s when I felt the happiest during the day.

After 4 years of working in the corporate world, I began to meet women after women who I found were also feeling depressed, unhappy, and bitter. One of them, my co-worker, gave me a piece of advice - “look into counseling and antidepressants.” I took her advice and the next thing I knew, I was attending counseling sessions provided by my job and taking antidepressant medication. Instead of helping, my issues began to spill over into my family life, kids and my friends outside of work via negative behaviors. I found myself uncontrollably becoming very snappy, angry, judging myself and others, and feeling miserable and old. After a couple of years of going through this, I started to question everything - is this really the American dream? Having a high paying job, having everything I need, but being absolutely miserable and feeling like I’m losing control?

At this point I was completely burned out, hated my job, was taking counseling sessions, was on antidepressants, and started to turn into someone that I absolutely hated. I was judging my co-workers, but had become just like them - the exact same person I was judging. I hated what I saw in the mirror and I felt completely stuck. The antidepressants weren’t working, and every few months my doctor kept switching them out for different ones but nothing helped.

This all started to finally change when I started to fully understand myself. Who I am, what my core values are, what I actually want to do with my life, and what I want from life. I started thinking and understanding that I needed to make immediate changes to turn my life around for the best because I was so burned out and was left feeling alone with unmanageable stress levels. As bad as that was, it became even worse from the fact that I was afraid to show my feelings and share my real experience with my family, friends and co-workers. On the outside, I looked like a very successful woman who had a great job, was making great money and had it all put together. In reality, I was burned out , completely unhappy, struggling with low confidence, low self esteem, and felt old and depressed.

I’m being vulnerable and telling you my story so that you know that I understand how you feel and so that I can assure you that you are not alone. I wish I had someone there for me during those difficult times to help me navigate my reality and make the needed changes to turn my mindset around so I didn’t have to waste so much precious time.

I tried it all. I tried seeing therapists but all I got from them was more and more pills that didn't do anything for me. I thought it was depression I was suffering from, but it actually wasn’t. I was simply not where I was supposed to be, chasing the wrong things and not in the correct mindset.

I know countless women in corporate and in business that feel the same exact way as you. This feeling of being stuck, alone, and burned out doesn't have to be your reality anymore. My journey out of that place has turned me into a completely unrecognizable person. Now it's my biggest passion to help others that find themselves in the same exact place.

I’m ready to help you pull yourself out from this domino effect of negativity and show you that you can live a meaningful life where everyday is pure enjoyment. It’s time to allow yourself to be happy again, but the choice is yours!